Kevin Federline claims a chaotic late-night phone call from Britney Spears became the breaking point in their relationship, according to his new memoir.
Federline recalls getting a call from Spears while she was out with Paris Hilton and Lindsay Lohan. He says the trio were drunk and his children were crying in the background.
“It was the final straw for me,”
Federline writes in his book You Thought You Knew, according to People magazine.
The former backup dancer describes the incident as one of several that made him realize their marriage wasn’t working.
Federline says the call came during the height of Spears’ party phase in the mid-2000s. The pop star was frequently photographed with Hilton and Lohan during their nights out.
He describes hearing his children upset while Spears and her celebrity friends were partying. Federline was 28 at the time and Spears was 25.
Marriage Breakdown
The couple married in 2004 after a whirlwind romance. They had two sons together – Sean Preston and Jayden James.
Their relationship faced constant media scrutiny. Paparazzi followed them everywhere, documenting both their highs and lows.
Federline says the phone call made him question whether Spears could balance motherhood with her social life. He felt their children’s wellbeing was at risk.
The memoir details other incidents that strained their marriage. Federline claims Spears struggled with the demands of being a mother while maintaining her career.
Custody Concerns
Their divorce became final in 2007. Federline initially received primary custody of their children due to Spears’ personal struggles.
Spears was dealing with mental health issues at the time. She entered rehab and faced a highly publicized conservatorship battle.
Federline says he tried to protect their sons from the media attention. He wanted them to have a normal childhood despite their famous parents.
The custody arrangement has changed over the years. Both parents now share time with Sean Preston and Jayden, who are now adults.
Looking Back
Federline’s memoir offers his perspective on their relationship’s end. He maintains he tried to make their marriage work despite the challenges.
The book comes out as Spears continues rebuilding her life after the end of her conservatorship. She’s been more open about her experiences during that difficult period.
Federline says he hopes people understand his side of the story. He claims he’s always put their children’s needs first, even when it meant making difficult decisions about their marriage.
