Jaimie Alexander first grabbed Hollywood’s attention as the formidable Lady Sif in Marvel’s “Thor” movies, but there’s a whole lot more to her than sword-wielding skepticism and Asgardian armor. Born Jaimie Lauren Tarbush on March 12, 1984, in Greenville, South Carolina, her route to stardom was anything but streamlined. If you caught her early work – think a quick blip in “Squirrel Trap” or her intriguing turn on “Kyle XY” – you might’ve spotted that same spark Marvel director Kenneth Branagh did: a fierce mix of vulnerability and strength that made her perfect for crossing swords with Norse gods.
For many fans, though, it was “Blindspot” that cemented Alexander’s reputation as a force to be reckoned with. As Jane Doe, the amnesiac covered in cryptic tattoos, she was at the center of the action – both literally and emotionally. Off-screen, Alexander’s commitment was legendary; she once broke her nose midway through a stunt, wiped off the blood, and insisted on wrapping up the scene before seeing a doctor.
The Private Life of a Warrior
Despite the tough exterior she’s become known for, Alexander is actually pretty reserved when it comes to her personal life. Raised in a military family – she’s got four brothers who all served – she’s often been spotted quietly supporting charities for military families, keeping the cameras at a respectful distance.
Her romantic life, naturally, has fired up its share of headlines over the years. These days, Alexander is single and seems more interested in focusing on her own pursuits than chasing a quick tabloid romance – no frantic dates or red-carpet PDA here.
In the past, she shared a long relationship with Peter Facinelli (you might recognize him from “Twilight”). The pair met during the filming of “Loosies,” got engaged in 2015, but ultimately decided to part ways a year later. Of their breakup, Alexander offered a silver-lining perspective to People: “Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can come together.”
Before Facinelli, Alexander was linked to Milo Ventimiglia somewhere around 2010 to 2012. Both were famously tight-lipped about their time together – if anything happened, it stayed behind closed doors.
A few other names have swirled around the rumor mill, too: a brief connection with stuntman Airon Armstrong in 2016, or the more recent (and equally unconfirmed) rumors about filmmaker David Raymond. Through it all, Alexander has managed to keep her personal details hers, sidestepping the usual celebrity oversharing.
And because it’s Hollywood, there have been the expected armchair matchmaking attempts tying her to Marvel co-stars like Chris Evans or Tom Hiddleston. But sometimes a friendly photo at a premiere really is just that – friendly.
Beyond the Spotlight
What really sets Alexander apart isn’t a never-ending stream of relationships, but her grit and work ethic. She’s pushed through some brutal injuries for her roles – at one point, a slipped disc left her briefly paralyzed in one leg – and keeps coming back for more, earning her a reputation as one of the most fearless action stars in the business.
Alexander also hasn’t been shy about addressing Hollywood’s less glamorous side, talking openly about the pressures women face in the industry. Rather than playing along, she’s chosen roles that let her show what she’s capable of, refusing to simply audition for someone else’s idea of “leading lady.”
Away from the limelight, you’re more likely to catch her riding her motorcycle, venturing into the outdoors, or unwinding with her dogs. The version of Alexander you see away from the flashbulbs is someone more interested in authenticity than fame.
Past Relationships
David Raymond
Airon Armstrong
Peter Facinelli
Milo Ventimiglia
Tom Pelphrey
While fans might always be curious about her love life, Alexander seems perfectly happy writing her own story – at her own pace. As she once said at a convention panel: “I’d rather be known for the work I do than who I’m seen with.” For someone who’s made a name playing some of the most indomitable characters on screen, it’s hard to imagine her any other way.
