Hailee Steinfeld’s journey in Hollywood began with a bang – her Oscar-nominated breakout in 2010’s “True Grit,” accomplished when she was just 14. Since then, she’s become a familiar face in both the acting and music worlds, taking on everything from the “Pitch Perfect” franchise to the lead in “Bumblebee,” and lending her voice to Gwen Stacy in the animated hit “Spider-Man: Into the Spider-Verse.” As a musician, she’s racked up radio plays with songs like “Love Myself,” “Starving” (with Zedd), and “Let Me Go” (with Alesso).
But what really sets Steinfeld apart isn’t just her resume – it’s how she manages to keep things real in an industry that doesn’t always reward authenticity. While she’s balancing Marvel’s “Hawkeye” and releasing new music, she still manages to maintain a sense of normalcy away from the constant buzz of celebrity drama.
The Private Side of Hailee
For someone who’s spent her teen years and early adulthood in the public eye, Steinfeld keeps her private life surprisingly low-key. Unlike many of her peers, she rarely entertains questions about her relationships. When she does offer a glimpse, it’s typically thoughtful and guarded.
“I think people assume everything in my life is so public,” she shared with Cosmopolitan in 2021. “There’s a lot that I keep to myself because I feel like the really special moments shouldn’t be for anyone else.”
Steinfeld’s dating history has made tabloid rounds a few times: She dated Cameron Smoller from 2016 to 2017, turning up at events and posting some sweet moments online before quietly parting ways. Fans probably remember her rumored romance with Niall Horan, which played out mostly in paparazzi shots and cryptic social media hints between late 2017 and 2018. Both kept the details private, and the relationship reportedly ended amicably.
In more recent headlines, Steinfeld has been seen with Buffalo Bills quarterback Josh Allen since spring 2023. Despite speculation online, the couple has kept their relationship mostly under wraps – not married, no public engagement – just a few glimpses for those paying close attention.
Balancing Fame and Normalcy
It’s hard not to admire how Steinfeld avoids the pitfalls that often come with early fame. For all the years she’s spent in showbiz, she’s managed to steer clear of major scandals, steering with a healthy sense of perspective.
“I’ve been lucky to have an amazing support system,” she told Elle. “My family has always been there to remind me what’s important when things get crazy.”
Steinfeld’s approach to her public image signals a kind of knowing confidence: she doesn’t feed the tabloid machine, nor does she overshare for the sake of attention. When her music hints at real-life inspiration, she prefers to keep listeners guessing, refusing to confirm details or turn her lyrics into public confessions.
Past Relationships
Josh Allen
Niall Horan
Cameron Smoller
As her career keeps expanding, both on screen and in the studio, Steinfeld seems to be forging a new way forward – one that values connection with fans but also maintains real boundaries. Her way of handling fame – measured, grounded, and a little mysterious – could serve as a blueprint for the generation of stars coming up behind her.
